So yesterday was a huge wake-up call.
I was at work cashier-ing, when a woman came through my line and asked, "how far along are you?" I said "what?" She then dug herself a deeper hole and asked, "well, are you pregnant?"
My reply, "No, not pregnant, just fat." and I smiled at her. I proceeded to laugh about it with the coworker who had heard the mess and never let it get to me while I was at work.
It wasn't until I got home and was talking to my boyfriend when I had a full-on breakdown. I told him what had happened and could not stop crying. Clearly, I needed to loose more weight than I thought. I love myself, and I'm happy not being a size 2, however, I know I could use some work, and yesterday was a huge wake-up call.
I have vowed to beginning my new year's resolution early and hitting the gym first thing tomorrow morning. I also need to do some grocery shopping and throw out all the chocolate in my cupboard. It won't be easy, but it will be worth it. I have had my meltdown, and now its time to build myself back up. I will not let this keep me down!
After work yesterday I felt really down and decided to stop at 7/11 to pick up some magazines as a pick-me-up. I placed a copy of Nylon with Hilary Duff on the cover on the counter. The cashier looked at me and pointed at the magazine, "is that a picture of you?" he asked.
I know it was all in jest, and I just laughed and said I wish, but that one little compliment turned my whole evening around. You'd be surprised, that girl you told had cute shoes on the subway this morning may have been feeling down, and you picked her up. I think the perfect new year's resolution would be to pay at least 2 people a day a genuine compliment. I promise it won't just pick up their day, it will make yours also.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Friday, December 18, 2009
Tis The Season!
Ah! Tis the season for cashmere sweaters, peppermint bark, hot cocoa, Christmas lights and overcrowded shopping malls!
With that said there are 2 things on my agenda this evening. The first would be what to wear to all your social events this season, and the next is what to buy for everyone on your list! I know there's only a week left to shop, but don't lie- I know you're not finished yet!
First things 1st, what to wear? Here are my favorite picks for various functions:
^a fun flirty number covered enough for that office Christmas party $69.50 at lanebryant.com
^This is the perfect dress to wear on a date to see The Nutcracker or an opera. The sleeves are sexy, but will also keep you warm! $168 at igigi.com
^This one would be great if you're hosting a house party or are attending one. Wanna warm it up? Add tights and a cute sweater. $39 at AshleyStewart.com
So we've solved dilemna number 1, what to wear to the event. Now you've gotta bring along the perfect gift. Fear not! I have some brilliant ideas for all the people in your life :)
^I love this one for my Mom, its the perfect way to combine her love of a good cocktail with her love of a long bubble bath. Either way, she'll be nice and relaxed :)$30 at Sephora
^for Dad a gift that will be sure to keep him cooking throughout the season. However, Mom may think its just an eyesore in the backyard... Dad will still wanna give you a good fist pound though! $59.99 at the NFL shop
^This one's perfect for my brainy younger sister, she's a girl's girl through and through, but loves reading and these classic books from Penguin will look great in her room and she'll read them cover to cover! $13.60 a piece at Amazon.com
^This one's perfect for my older sister who just became a mother. It's affordable, and beautiful, and I'm sure it will mean a lot to her. $49.95 at RedEnvelope
^This craft bin would be perfect for my artsy fashion school friends at 28 bucks from Amazon
^They say the way into a man's heart is through his stomach, and my boyfriend is a pizza fanatic! He would love this- membership to a pizza of the month club where 3 delicious deep-dish Chicago style pizzas are delivered to his house each month for a year. $176.85 at Amazing Clubs
I know there's still a lot of people on your list, but hopefully this gives you some great ideas and you'll be invited back to every party this year!
But remember, don't get lost in the haze of shop shop shop! gifts gifts gifts! take a second to take a deep breath and remember that this is the only Christmas you will have this year, so make it a good one. Remember that the spirit of Christmas is not about one day sales, getting the perfect parking spot at the mall or squeezing into that too-tight party dress after eating too much turkey stuffing. No matter what holiday you celebrate, remember to give thanks and give back to the people in your life. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays Blogland! :)
With that said there are 2 things on my agenda this evening. The first would be what to wear to all your social events this season, and the next is what to buy for everyone on your list! I know there's only a week left to shop, but don't lie- I know you're not finished yet!
First things 1st, what to wear? Here are my favorite picks for various functions:
^a fun flirty number covered enough for that office Christmas party $69.50 at lanebryant.com
^This is the perfect dress to wear on a date to see The Nutcracker or an opera. The sleeves are sexy, but will also keep you warm! $168 at igigi.com
^This one would be great if you're hosting a house party or are attending one. Wanna warm it up? Add tights and a cute sweater. $39 at AshleyStewart.com
So we've solved dilemna number 1, what to wear to the event. Now you've gotta bring along the perfect gift. Fear not! I have some brilliant ideas for all the people in your life :)
^I love this one for my Mom, its the perfect way to combine her love of a good cocktail with her love of a long bubble bath. Either way, she'll be nice and relaxed :)$30 at Sephora
^for Dad a gift that will be sure to keep him cooking throughout the season. However, Mom may think its just an eyesore in the backyard... Dad will still wanna give you a good fist pound though! $59.99 at the NFL shop
^This one's perfect for my brainy younger sister, she's a girl's girl through and through, but loves reading and these classic books from Penguin will look great in her room and she'll read them cover to cover! $13.60 a piece at Amazon.com
^This one's perfect for my older sister who just became a mother. It's affordable, and beautiful, and I'm sure it will mean a lot to her. $49.95 at RedEnvelope
^This craft bin would be perfect for my artsy fashion school friends at 28 bucks from Amazon
^They say the way into a man's heart is through his stomach, and my boyfriend is a pizza fanatic! He would love this- membership to a pizza of the month club where 3 delicious deep-dish Chicago style pizzas are delivered to his house each month for a year. $176.85 at Amazing Clubs
I know there's still a lot of people on your list, but hopefully this gives you some great ideas and you'll be invited back to every party this year!
But remember, don't get lost in the haze of shop shop shop! gifts gifts gifts! take a second to take a deep breath and remember that this is the only Christmas you will have this year, so make it a good one. Remember that the spirit of Christmas is not about one day sales, getting the perfect parking spot at the mall or squeezing into that too-tight party dress after eating too much turkey stuffing. No matter what holiday you celebrate, remember to give thanks and give back to the people in your life. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays Blogland! :)
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Happy Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving everyone! First I must apologize for my hiatus from blogspot, it has been a long week of graveyard shifts at work for me. And now I know why they call them graveyard shifts- once you're done, you feel like you belong in one.
So today is basically a big massive eating holiday, a plus sized girls worst nightmare (kind of) and I'm here to tell you, just relax and bust out the sweat pants. If eating with a large group of family or friends, especially those relatives you only see once or twice a year, it can be a little daunting to feel overweight, and then go stuff your gut. However, this is a day to give thanks, and don't feel so guilty for going overboard.
Make sure to try a little of everything on the table, and wear some comfy and cute sweats (especially if the party is at your place!).
Here are some cute options:
^this set is so adorable and runs for about $35 total. Also, if pink really isn't your color blue and black is also available, and don't be afraid to mix and match!
Indulge today and eat healthy tomorrow, one of my favorite dinner-table toasts is "eat drink and be merry, for tomorrow we may diet!"
And remember to love yourself no matter what- be thankful for your friends, family and the skin you're in, because you are fabulous!
So today is basically a big massive eating holiday, a plus sized girls worst nightmare (kind of) and I'm here to tell you, just relax and bust out the sweat pants. If eating with a large group of family or friends, especially those relatives you only see once or twice a year, it can be a little daunting to feel overweight, and then go stuff your gut. However, this is a day to give thanks, and don't feel so guilty for going overboard.
Make sure to try a little of everything on the table, and wear some comfy and cute sweats (especially if the party is at your place!).
Here are some cute options:
^this set is so adorable and runs for about $35 total. Also, if pink really isn't your color blue and black is also available, and don't be afraid to mix and match!
Indulge today and eat healthy tomorrow, one of my favorite dinner-table toasts is "eat drink and be merry, for tomorrow we may diet!"
And remember to love yourself no matter what- be thankful for your friends, family and the skin you're in, because you are fabulous!
Monday, November 16, 2009
A Brief Lesson in Customer Service
Well pay day was Friday, so naturally, what's a girl to do when the money comes rolling in? Shop!
I tried to keep my purchases to a minimum, but I snagged a cream cardigan and tapestry-esque scarf from Forever 21. I also grabbed a reversible blue scarf with paisely print and these jeans from old navy >>
^normally, I would steer clear from a light wash denim, because they tend to make curvy girls look bigger, however, they fit much better than the darker washes I tried on, and they actually made my butt look bigger (and I have a flat ass, so that was a plus for me!)
One thing that should be noted in today's post- customer service. Two similar stores with competing markets, yet the customer service was VASTLY different in each store.
In forever 21 I was greeted by no one, my friend was forced to leave to use the elevator outside because she brought her son in a stroller (what about someone in a wheelchair??), and when we arrived upstairs, no one was available and both the dressing rooms and registers were closed! There was no way we were going back downstairs, so we found a salesgirl to ring us up.
We asked to see her manager, and we brought attention to the fact that the place is highly inaccessable to anyone with special needs and that it should be looked into, or at least keep both floors open for purchases. The manager actually gave me an attitude and got defensive!
Now I understand that there's only so much you can do, but the least you can do is apologize and take our thoughts into consideration. I asked for the managers name and the number to corporate.
I love Forever 21, but lets face it, I'd rather spend loads of cash at Old Navy where I was greeted by 3 different sales girls, and helped immediately and quickly.
I read in a magazine that if a customer has a wonderful shopping experience, she tells an average of 3 friends. If she has a terrible one- she tells an average of 11. I've had numerous readers visit this blog, so consider this above average. If you visit Forever 21 at the Del Amo Fashion center, don't expect manager Maribel to help you. Unless its to see you to the door.
What kind of nightmarish shopping experiences have you had?? This is your chance to dish and let the world know who to avoid!
I tried to keep my purchases to a minimum, but I snagged a cream cardigan and tapestry-esque scarf from Forever 21. I also grabbed a reversible blue scarf with paisely print and these jeans from old navy >>
^normally, I would steer clear from a light wash denim, because they tend to make curvy girls look bigger, however, they fit much better than the darker washes I tried on, and they actually made my butt look bigger (and I have a flat ass, so that was a plus for me!)
One thing that should be noted in today's post- customer service. Two similar stores with competing markets, yet the customer service was VASTLY different in each store.
In forever 21 I was greeted by no one, my friend was forced to leave to use the elevator outside because she brought her son in a stroller (what about someone in a wheelchair??), and when we arrived upstairs, no one was available and both the dressing rooms and registers were closed! There was no way we were going back downstairs, so we found a salesgirl to ring us up.
We asked to see her manager, and we brought attention to the fact that the place is highly inaccessable to anyone with special needs and that it should be looked into, or at least keep both floors open for purchases. The manager actually gave me an attitude and got defensive!
Now I understand that there's only so much you can do, but the least you can do is apologize and take our thoughts into consideration. I asked for the managers name and the number to corporate.
I love Forever 21, but lets face it, I'd rather spend loads of cash at Old Navy where I was greeted by 3 different sales girls, and helped immediately and quickly.
I read in a magazine that if a customer has a wonderful shopping experience, she tells an average of 3 friends. If she has a terrible one- she tells an average of 11. I've had numerous readers visit this blog, so consider this above average. If you visit Forever 21 at the Del Amo Fashion center, don't expect manager Maribel to help you. Unless its to see you to the door.
What kind of nightmarish shopping experiences have you had?? This is your chance to dish and let the world know who to avoid!
Monday, November 9, 2009
Facing the Gym
So I finally got off my lazy bum and headed into the gym today. I know it's difficult for anyone to get up and go to the gym, but sometimes I feel that as a plus-sized girl it's especially difficult. There are TONS of deliciously hot people at the gym, and it's easy to get down on yourself if you're not a size 4.
Then again, there is a reason these people are ridiculously cut- they practically live at the gym. I think a balance in life is certainly the most important thing one can achieve. Definitely go to the gym 3 or 4 times a week, but go ahead and enjoy a slice of pie after dinner too. As long as it isn't every night, don't kill yourself trying to get skinny. Because let's not kid anyone any more- HEALTHY is the ideal look, not skinny.
With that said, what shall we wear to gym? Here are some of my best finds :) Enjoy!
^Here is a champion sports bra ($33 on champion.com, about $15 at Target), I cannot work out without one of these. However, my boobs err on the larger side, so I also wear a regular bra underneath to keep my girls in place. If that idea doesn't appeal to you, grab a sports bra with underwire.
^A lot of women (mainly the skinny ones!) show up to the gym in some ass-hugging booty/bike shorts that fit like a glove. Congrats for them. For the rest of the world, these shorts will do! These wont hang down around your knees like men's basketball shorts will, and they're loose and comfy so you won't feel like anyone can see your panties. Plus, these shorts have a hidden boyshort underneath, so you'll feel extra covered.
Then just throw on any old T-shirt and get sweaty! It's not really about looking fabulous in the gym, its about feeling fabulous once you've conquered that treadmill.
Then again, there is a reason these people are ridiculously cut- they practically live at the gym. I think a balance in life is certainly the most important thing one can achieve. Definitely go to the gym 3 or 4 times a week, but go ahead and enjoy a slice of pie after dinner too. As long as it isn't every night, don't kill yourself trying to get skinny. Because let's not kid anyone any more- HEALTHY is the ideal look, not skinny.
With that said, what shall we wear to gym? Here are some of my best finds :) Enjoy!
^Here is a champion sports bra ($33 on champion.com, about $15 at Target), I cannot work out without one of these. However, my boobs err on the larger side, so I also wear a regular bra underneath to keep my girls in place. If that idea doesn't appeal to you, grab a sports bra with underwire.
^A lot of women (mainly the skinny ones!) show up to the gym in some ass-hugging booty/bike shorts that fit like a glove. Congrats for them. For the rest of the world, these shorts will do! These wont hang down around your knees like men's basketball shorts will, and they're loose and comfy so you won't feel like anyone can see your panties. Plus, these shorts have a hidden boyshort underneath, so you'll feel extra covered.
Then just throw on any old T-shirt and get sweaty! It's not really about looking fabulous in the gym, its about feeling fabulous once you've conquered that treadmill.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
There are no Ugly Women, Only Lazy Ones.
So upon perusing the internet for some fashionable options I found that torrid.com is slashing prices on their clearance items. They offer a 50% discount on top of already discounted prices. Everything below is right around 20 dollars!
^love this floral pencil skirt! Rough it up a little with ankle botties, tights and a motorcycle jacket for a date or party, or just add sweet pumps, a cardigan and pearls for a family brunch.
^ok, so these shoes are not exactly winter material- but they're only about 20 bucks and would look beautiful on a warm day with a maxi dress or jeans and a peasant blouse.
^these skinny pleather pants are fun for a night at the club with the girls! Definetly not an investment piece, these are purely for fun, but at only 15 dollars it's worth it!
Now on to some not-so-fierce fashion moments...
As far as fashion do's and dont's go, its never a don't to be yourself and have your own distinct body type. That includes being plus-sized, embrace it, love it, and dress it well! However, there are some things that us plus-sized girls especially need to pay attention to...
^a problem plaguing many thicker women is denial. For some reason we either wish we were smaller than we actually are, or we squeeze into tight clothes to tell ourselves that we are not an XL- "see! I can fit into a small!"
We need to stop this. If you wear clothes that fit your body correctly, you look smaller! I guarentee if I put this girl in well fitted, slightly higher rise, dark wash jean and a longer top with a blazer she would look 15 pounds lighter!
And don't even get me started on the "boys are trouble" t-shirt.
^ simple solution: burn that skirt!! The weird fading on her rear only highlight what I'm sure she doesn't want highlighted. The skirt is too long, it should hit her right around the knee. Something must also be done about the VPL- some spanks, or other smoothing undergarments would do the trick. With some wardrobe tweaking she could easily look lighter and more fashionable.
^less is more! The tutu is too short and voluminous, and there is just too much look! It's like a vampire from the 80's. And can someone tell me what the eyemask on her head is all about? Raven was much cuter as a Cosby kid...
Being volumptous and fabulous is never a don't- just make sure to dress the body you have, not the one you wish you had. Learn to love yourself first and foremost the way you are!
^love this floral pencil skirt! Rough it up a little with ankle botties, tights and a motorcycle jacket for a date or party, or just add sweet pumps, a cardigan and pearls for a family brunch.
^ok, so these shoes are not exactly winter material- but they're only about 20 bucks and would look beautiful on a warm day with a maxi dress or jeans and a peasant blouse.
^these skinny pleather pants are fun for a night at the club with the girls! Definetly not an investment piece, these are purely for fun, but at only 15 dollars it's worth it!
Now on to some not-so-fierce fashion moments...
As far as fashion do's and dont's go, its never a don't to be yourself and have your own distinct body type. That includes being plus-sized, embrace it, love it, and dress it well! However, there are some things that us plus-sized girls especially need to pay attention to...
^a problem plaguing many thicker women is denial. For some reason we either wish we were smaller than we actually are, or we squeeze into tight clothes to tell ourselves that we are not an XL- "see! I can fit into a small!"
We need to stop this. If you wear clothes that fit your body correctly, you look smaller! I guarentee if I put this girl in well fitted, slightly higher rise, dark wash jean and a longer top with a blazer she would look 15 pounds lighter!
And don't even get me started on the "boys are trouble" t-shirt.
^ simple solution: burn that skirt!! The weird fading on her rear only highlight what I'm sure she doesn't want highlighted. The skirt is too long, it should hit her right around the knee. Something must also be done about the VPL- some spanks, or other smoothing undergarments would do the trick. With some wardrobe tweaking she could easily look lighter and more fashionable.
^less is more! The tutu is too short and voluminous, and there is just too much look! It's like a vampire from the 80's. And can someone tell me what the eyemask on her head is all about? Raven was much cuter as a Cosby kid...
Being volumptous and fabulous is never a don't- just make sure to dress the body you have, not the one you wish you had. Learn to love yourself first and foremost the way you are!
Quick Update
So due to my working schedule, Halloween did not end up happening the way I had planned. I ended up coming home, making dinner with my boyfriend and watching a scary movie- What Lies Beneath.
But I have good news! They say in life there are no second chances, but that is not true! I have been invited to a Halloween do-over party because a lot of people found themselves in the same predicament as myself, a lame Halloween. Thus I have an opportunity to dress up and get lots of fun Halloween photos!
I haven't got much time to write now, but I promise I'll update soon!
But I have good news! They say in life there are no second chances, but that is not true! I have been invited to a Halloween do-over party because a lot of people found themselves in the same predicament as myself, a lame Halloween. Thus I have an opportunity to dress up and get lots of fun Halloween photos!
I haven't got much time to write now, but I promise I'll update soon!
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